hmmm. think im gonna do a mass unfollow and switch blogs. not sure where im gonna go yet but if u want to follow the new one pm me and ill let u kno where it is
fyi if i break mutual it doesnt mean we can be mutuals on the new blog im just unfollowing urls i dont recognize so
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my hot take as someone who has experienced the lowest of lows in terms of severe depression and anxiety and executive dysfunction: the whole “not everyone is neurotypical karen” mindset is legitimately damaging and destructive and ultimately will make you feel worse and more isolated
eating well and exercising and etc absolutely helps with mental illness. obviously it’s irritating to hear that when those things feel like impossible tasks, i get that, and i’ve been there. but forcing yourself to eat better, to walk more, to get up out of bed and shower even when you don’t want to, those things help. they clear your head. they make you feel better. they absolutely do. getting there is hard, but once you do it, it does help
rejecting any kind of help, even the most benign suggestion, from someone who is trying their best to think positively for you and shoulder the emotional burden with you, is going to make you feel worse. it’s going to make you feel that much more cut off and lonely and frustrated. i have isolated myself and ruined friendships with people because i chose to close myself off from people who were just trying to help and i convinced myself that they didn’t understand me and no one would ever understand me. what did that get me in the end? genuinely nothing. it made me feel even more alone.
in 2018 i encourage people who suffer like i have to see where people are coming from with cheesy self-care advice. they’re coming from the heart. and sometimes, doing a face mask or taking a hot bath or eating a nutritious meal or getting up to watch the sunrise or even just one yoga class can make you feel that much closer to the person you want to be. a lot of recovery from mental illness is “fake it till you make it” type shit. so don’t reject even the corniest advice because you are convinced it won’t help you. sometimes it really does. and you shouldn’t keep denying yourself even the smallest of victories because you feel like it’s easier to wallow in how bad you feel. it is so difficult to do good things for yourself and your body, but it is so rewarding
the depravity of the online world opened up my third eye to sex negativity and now i wont stop until the human race is extinct
no one can make me moan quite like a vanilla coke
to clarify this i do put vanilla coke in my butthole
to clarify this
i do put vanilla coke
in my butthole
^Haiku^bot^0.4. Sometimes I do stupid things (but I have improved with syllables!). Beep-boop!i’d die for you haiku robot
some fucking dumbass: gay people with gay relatives are more likely to be gay than straight people with predominantly straight relatives, proving the gay gene is real and exists
me, a gay with a brain: gay people with gay relatives feel more safe coming out than gay people with a lot of straight relatives, proving nothing other than the fact that straight people oppress us and then try to cop out of taking responsibility
Trans lesbian feminist Beth Elliot’s response to TERFs who attacked her at the West Coast Lesbian Conference, 1973 (x)